What is life after immigrating to America really like once the excitement fades and reality sets in?
Not Instagram. Not carefully selected success stories. But an ordinary day for a Vietnamese family living in America: waking up at 6 a.m. to drive the kids to school, commuting 40 minutes to the office, and spending weekends mowing the lawn and shopping at Costco.
This article takes an honest look at the Vietnamese family lifestyle in America from work-life balance in America to the rhythms of suburban life USA covering both the aspects that are better than expected and those that are very different from what many people imagine, so families considering EB-5 can gain the most realistic perspective possible before making a decision.
How Is Daily Life After Immigrating to America Different from Vietnam?
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To understand life after immigrating to America, let’s start with a typical day for a family of four living in The Woodlands, Texas one of the most popular suburban areas for Vietnamese families immigrating through EB-5.
5:30–6:00 a.m.
The whole family wakes up. Rice is cooked, or water is boiled for coffee. In Vietnam, stepping outside means finding pho or banh mi on almost every corner. In America, breakfast is almost always prepared at home unless there is a Starbucks drive-thru on the way to work.
7:00–7:30 a.m.
Driving the children to school. Contrary to what many Vietnamese parents assume, school buses do not pick children up directly at every home. They typically stop several blocks away, or parents drive their children themselves. This is one reason why most families need at least two cars.
7:30–8:30 a.m.
Commuting to work. The average commute in American cities known for good work-life balance is approximately 23–25 minutes. In large cities such as Houston or Dallas, where metro systems are limited, actual commute times can reach 30–50 minutes each way depending on traffic. Many Vietnamese professionals work remotely or in hybrid arrangements. This trend has remained strong after COVID and continues to be common in the technology sector in 2026.
8:30 a.m.–5:00 or 6:00 p.m.
Work. The average workweek in America is approximately 47.1 hours, significantly higher than the standard 40-hour week. Many employees do not use all their vacation days or continue working during vacations. This is one of the biggest cultural differences compared to Vietnam. In America, the boundary between work and personal time is often less clear than many newcomers expect.
5:30–6:30 p.m.
Picking up children from after-school care (many programs cost $200–$400 per month), stopping by the grocery store if necessary, and returning home to cook dinner. For Vietnamese families in America, sharing dinner together remains an important tradition and often serves as the strongest cultural anchor they maintain.
7:00–9:00 p.m.
Family time. Helping children with homework, watching television, and video calling relatives in Vietnam. The 11–14 hour time difference presents a real challenge. When it is 8 p.m. in America, it is often 7–10 a.m. the next day in Vietnam.
9:00–10:30 p.m.
Personal time and preparation for the next day. Most people go to bed earlier than they did in Vietnam, partly because they wake up earlier and partly because suburban America has far less nightlife than Vietnamese cities that remain active until midnight.
Weekends
Mowing the lawn, cleaning the house, shopping at Costco or H-Mart (Korean/Asian supermarkets), taking children to tutoring classes or extracurricular activities. Some families participate in Vietnamese community activities through temples, churches, or hometown associations.
Work-Life Balance in America: The Reality That Surprises Many People
Many Vietnamese families arrive in America expecting a better work-life balance because they hear that Americans work regular hours, rarely work overtime, and take their vacations seriously. The reality is much more complicated.
What Is Actually Better Than Vietnam
Clearer Boundaries Around Working Hours In many American corporate environments, employees are generally not expected to respond to emails or attend meetings after 5 or 6 p.m. (except in industries such as finance or law). The culture of “do not disturb after work” genuinely exists and is respected more than in Vietnam. Better Separation Between Work and Family Life in Vietnam, professional and social relationships often overlap. Business dinners and drinking sessions with managers are considered part of work. In America, after-work hours belong to personal and family life. Few people expect social obligations outside business hours. Vacation Time Is More Respected (At Good Companies) At major companies especially in technology and finance 15–20 vacation days per year is common. Americans often take vacations without constantly checking work emails. Flexible Work Arrangements In 2026, approximately 28% of American workers are fully remote or hybrid. For Vietnamese professionals in technology hubs such as Seattle or Silicon Valley, remote work allows them to live in quieter suburban areas while still earning big-city salaries.
What Is Harder Than You Think
Americans work approximately 47.1 hours per week significantly more than the standard 40-hour workweek. More than 85.8% of men and 66.5% of women work over 40 hours per week. There is no federally mandated paid vacation in the United States, a major difference from most developed countries. Vacation allowances often range from only 10–15 days annually, compared to 20–30 days in many European countries. About 42% of Americans continue working during their vacations. Constant Productivity Pressure American workplace culture often emphasizes productivity, with expectations of 40+ hour workweeks and occasional availability beyond normal office hours. Employees may hesitate to use all available vacation days due to concerns about workplace culture or job security. No “Social Assistants” Like in Vietnam In Vietnam, many families have domestic helpers, support from grandparents, convenient street food, ultra-fast delivery services, and extensive service infrastructure. In America, most household tasks must be done personally or outsourced at a significant cost. Ride-hailing services are not available on every corner the way Grab is in Vietnam.
See also: How Much Wealth Does a Vietnamese Family Need to Live in America?
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Suburban Life USA: What Is Life in the American Suburbs Really Like?
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The vast majority of Vietnamese families immigrating through EB-5 choose suburban life USA rather than living in city centers because homes are larger, schools are better, neighborhoods are safer, and costs are often more reasonable. However, suburban life in America has unique characteristics that newcomers need time to adjust to.
Living Space: What Vietnamese Families Usually Love Most
In America, even middle-income families can own or rent homes with 3–4 bedrooms, a yard, a garage, and spacious living areas something that would be nearly impossible in Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City with a comparable budget.
A typical suburban American home for a Vietnamese family includes:
180–230 m² of living space
3–4 bedrooms
2 bathrooms
Front and back yards
A two-car garage
A separate kitchen with an island counter
Separate dining and living rooms
By comparison, an 80–100 m² apartment in Ho Chi Minh City may cost the same or even more.
The Quietness: Something That Requires Adjustment
Public spaces in America are far quieter than in Vietnam.
There are no constant car horns, no street vendors, and no loud announcements from mobile sellers.
At night, suburban neighborhoods are often completely silent.
Some Vietnamese families find this peaceful and relaxing. Others describe it as “too quiet” and experience homesickness.
Less Interaction with Neighbors
American culture places a high value on privacy. Neighbors do not casually visit one another’s homes the way they often do in Vietnam. Many newly settled Vietnamese families say they have lived next to American neighbors for two or three years without even knowing their names. While this is culturally normal in America, it can feel lonely at first.
Everything Requires Driving
In most American suburbs, you cannot simply walk to the supermarket, coffee shop, or even a friend’s house. Almost every trip requires a car. For people coming from Vietnamese cities where everything is accessible within a short motorbike ride, this may be the single biggest lifestyle adjustment.
Nature and Green Space: A Major Advantage
Suburban life in America typically includes abundant green space that is difficult to find in large Vietnamese cities:
Large parks with walking and jogging trails
Picnic areas
Artificial lakes
Community recreation centers
Golf courses
Sports clubs
On weekends, families can enjoy hiking, fishing at nearby lakes, or overnight camping outdoor activities many Vietnamese families experience for the first time after moving to America.
Vietnamese Family Lifestyle in America: The 5 Biggest Changes
Change #1: Preserving Vietnamese Culture in a New Environment
The Vietnamese-American community now numbers approximately 2,347,344 people (2023) and is spread across Orange County, Houston, San Jose, Dallas, Seattle, and many other regions.
This community maintains strong cultural traditions through:
Vietnamese temples
Churches
Vietnamese language schools
Hometown associations
For families living in areas with large Vietnamese populations, the Vietnamese family lifestyle in America often retains many traditional elements:
Eating Vietnamese meals daily
Buying ingredients at H-Mart, 99 Ranch, or Vietnamese markets
Speaking Vietnamese at home
Sending children to weekend Vietnamese language classes
Celebrating Lunar New Year and family memorial traditions
The Main Challenge
First-generation children often want to become “Americanized” more quickly and may resist efforts to maintain Vietnamese language and traditions. Many Vietnamese parents in America describe this as one of the most emotionally challenging aspects of life after immigration.
Change #2: Social Networks Must Be Rebuilt from Scratch
In Vietnam, most people already have an established social network consisting of family, friends, colleagues, and neighbors. When you move to America, that network is essentially reset to zero. Building a new support system usually takes time often two to three years before friendships become strong and dependable.
How Successful Vietnamese Immigrants Build Community
The most effective approaches include:
Joining Vietnamese temples or churches
Participating in Vietnamese-American Chambers of Commerce
Becoming involved in school parent organizations
Joining Vietnamese Facebook groups in the city or state where you live
These networks often become crucial sources of friendship, support, and practical advice.
Change #3: Relationships with Parents and Family in Vietnam
Family remains at the center of Vietnamese culture regardless of where people live. One of the greatest emotional challenges of immigration is the physical distance from parents, siblings, and relatives who remain in Vietnam. FaceTime and Zalo make daily communication possible, but they cannot replace sharing meals together.
Many EB-5 families return to Vietnam once or twice a year during the early years after immigration. In the long term, some families sponsor their parents to immigrate after becoming eligible.
Legal Consideration
Permanent residents must maintain sufficient physical presence in the United States to preserve their green card status. Being absent from the country for more than six consecutive months may affect permanent resident status. Families should carefully plan trips to Vietnam and consider applying for a Re-Entry Permit if they intend to remain outside the United States for more than six months.
Change #4: Marriage and Family Responsibilities
Daily life after immigrating to America significantly changes family roles and responsibilities. In Vietnam, many families receive help from domestic workers, grandparents, and convenient service infrastructure.
In America, most Vietnamese families handle everything themselves:
Both spouses work
Both parents transport children
Both cook meals
Both clean the house
Both maintain the yard
This often requires clearer and more equal division of responsibilities. While this can create healthier family balance, it can also generate stress for families not accustomed to the adjustment.
Change #5: Mental Health and Emotional Well-Being
This is one of the least discussed yet most important aspects of immigration. The early stage of life in America is often associated with what many immigrants call “immigrant blues.” This experience is real and affects the majority of newcomers even those who immigrated voluntarily and prepared thoroughly.
Common Symptoms
Feelings of loneliness and isolation
Homesickness
Missing Vietnamese food
Stress from language and cultural adaptation
Financial concerns during the adjustment period
Doubts about whether moving was the right decision
The Most Important Thing to Remember
This phase is normal.
Most Vietnamese families experience it and eventually overcome it.
It generally takes:
1–2 years to begin feeling comfortable
3–5 years to genuinely feel at home in America
See also: What Should Vietnamese Newcomers Prepare Before Moving to America?
What Makes Life After Immigrating to America Truly Worth It?
After discussing the challenges, it is equally important to understand why millions of immigrant families including hundreds of thousands of Vietnamese families continue to choose America as their long-term home.
The answer is not because life becomes easier overnight.
It is because the opportunities available to the next generation are often significantly greater.
Education Opportunities for Children
For most Vietnamese EB-5 families, the strongest motivation is not themselves—it is their children.
Children who grow up in America gain access to:
High-quality public education
World-class universities
Extensive scholarship opportunities
Global career pathways
An English-speaking environment from an early age
Many first-generation Vietnamese immigrants accept years of sacrifice because they believe their children will have broader opportunities than they themselves had.
Economic Mobility Remains Real
Although America is more competitive than many people expect, upward mobility is still achievable.
Many Vietnamese-American families who arrived with limited resources have built successful careers and businesses through:
Education
Entrepreneurship
Professional careers
Real estate
Technology
Healthcare
The Vietnamese-American community today includes successful physicians, engineers, attorneys, entrepreneurs, executives, and public officials.
This success did not happen overnight, but it demonstrates what is possible over time.
Safety and Stability
For families with children, safety is often a major reason for choosing suburban life in America.
Many top suburban communities offer:
Low crime rates
Strong public schools
Clean environments
Well-maintained infrastructure
Extensive recreational facilities
Parents often describe peace of mind as one of the most valuable aspects of daily life in America.
Freedom to Choose Your Lifestyle
One of the most distinctive aspects of American life is the flexibility to design your own path.
Some families choose:
Large suburban homes
Urban professional lifestyles
Entrepreneurial ventures
Remote work arrangements
Early retirement strategies
America offers many different ways to build a fulfilling life depending on personal goals and priorities.
Long-Term Benefits of Permanent Residency
For EB-5 investors, permanent residency creates opportunities that extend far beyond immigration itself.
Benefits include:
The right to live anywhere in the United States
Access to public education
Eligibility for in-state tuition
Greater career flexibility
Potential pathways to citizenship
Family-based sponsorship opportunities in the future
These advantages often become more valuable over time.
Reality Check: Life After Immigrating to America Is Neither a Dream Nor a Nightmare
The truth lies somewhere in between.
Life after immigrating to America is not an instant success story.
There will be challenges:
Cultural adaptation
Building new social networks
Learning unfamiliar systems
Managing finances
Raising children between two cultures
At the same time, there are significant rewards:
Educational opportunities
Career growth
Safety and stability
Greater long-term options for future generations
Families who arrive with realistic expectations generally adapt more successfully than those expecting a perfect life from day one.
VITA CAPITAL Helps You Start Your Life in America the Right Way
Immigration is not simply about obtaining a visa or a green card.
It is about building a sustainable life after arrival.
VITA CAPITAL Your Global Future supports Vietnamese investors throughout the entire EB-5 journey, from project selection and immigration planning to practical post-settlement guidance.
The goal is not only helping families obtain permanent residency, but also helping them understand the realities of life after immigrating to America, prepare financially, select the most suitable state and city, and create a long-term plan for their family's future.
Together with Toppins Law Firm, P.C. and FirstPathway Partners (FPP), VITA CAPITAL helps Vietnamese families navigate the immigration process with confidence while preparing for the practical realities of living in the United States.
The most successful immigrant families are not necessarily those with the most resources they are often the ones who prepare the most thoroughly before they arrive.
If you are considering EB-5 and want a realistic understanding of what life after immigrating to America truly looks like, contact VITA CAPITAL today for a comprehensive consultation tailored to your family's goals and plans.
